You can start with the fact that every person wants to be happy – that is, loved, and exactly the person they love themselves.
Of course, the true source of happiness is God, who is only love and who gives us a loved one. A person is happy when his conscience is calm, including in front of a loved one. Then peace and joy come, which fill our daily lives. And yet, a person is happy with another person when they don't have to look at someone else in order to make themselves happy. In other words, when he is completely grateful for his soulmate.
Therefore, a person is unhappy only in two cases: when there is not enough forgiveness and love; when there is not enough gratitude for what already exists.
Let's take a closer look at these two points. What do you mean, you don't have enough forgiveness? When there is doubt that a loved one will accept character weaknesses. That he would be able to continue forgiving them throughout his life. Such fear torments the soul and prevents a person from being completely happy. You need to learn to accept your own weaknesses and the weaknesses of your partner. Because the root of every weakness lies in the difficulties of life. If a person has dealt with himself and forgiven himself, he will be able to forgive a loved one. It is also very important to understand that in a couple, one is no better than the other; and it is pointless to feel sorry for yourself, demanding attention. You just need to accept the fact of the weaknesses of both and separate them from the enjoyment of a relationship once and for all. Otherwise, when, for example, a woman gets offended and is moody, the man gets offended and is moody too (in his own way), which makes the woman get offended again. The triangle closes. But if a woman accepts her flaws, then there will be no reason to be naughty. A man will help her cope with her weaknesses and not "explode", because he is always stronger and takes care of her. Yes, a woman is the weaker sex and it is always easier for her to fall into doubts or get physically tired. Thank God that there is a strong male shoulder nearby!
The second point concerns misunderstanding to the end of your happiness with your loved one. It has a lot to do with pride. When a person is not grateful for what they have and wants more. When he doesn't understand the value of the person next to him. Knowing the flaws of a loved one, you can easily indulge in dreams about another person you don't know so well. In your heart, put him one step above your soulmate. But these are just false illusions. As mentioned above, everyone has their own flaws. And how wonderful it is to fully enjoy the company of your loved one!
A couple's relationship is only for enjoyment! Therefore, it is worth valuing time and being happy in a relationship. Relax together, play various games, share experiences, enjoy each other's victories, dream together, etc. May forgiving love and gratitude reign in our hearts! And every new day brings more and more happiness! sensuelas.com